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  • Two of them, one of me. No Stroller!

    May 23rd, 2015

    I get Fiona out first, set her on the ground so I can get Jack out of his car seat.  I carry Fiona and hold Jacks hand. We walk up the front steps to Lauren’s , which caught my eye because it had a womans name, and it had a sign that said,”good food and beer on tap.” I open the front door, it’s an old wooden building, hardwood floors, a piano on a stage. It looks like the kind of place that would have good  bluegrass music on a Friday night. Everyone turns and looks at us, a table with two older ladies, smiling, and a large table of motorcycle riders, who also flash huge smiles and laughs as Jack stands in the door way frozen. There’s an art show displayed by the kids from a Booneville Elementary school. I want my kids to go to this school! Paper Mache seagulls, all beautiful shapes and sizes fly over our heads. A wall with four shelves hold atleast two dozen “scrimshaw.” 

    “Come on Jack, aren’t you hungry?” His face starts to soften and smile at the ladies and the bikers who are taken by him and his big inquisitive eyes. 

    Once we’re in a kind looking woman  greets us. She has a bird necklace on, light brown hair and a soft spoken voice. Is she Lauren?  She shows us where we will be sitting and brings two high chairs. 

    “Thank you, where is your bathroom?”

    “It’s that way” the women points  to the back. I start my long journey with my two fifteen month olds. They are excited now. It’s impossible to get them to go the same direction. 

    “Do you need to change the diapers?” 

    “Yes” I say. 

    “You can change them on that couch.”

    “Cool! Thanks, that’s awesome!” I say. 

    It’s a dingy little couch with a dingy old tiger stuffed animal, a cute brown bear, a plastic truck, a box of crayons, coloring books. I wonder whose kids it was set up for, Lauren’s? It keeps Jack and Fiona  engaged long enough to change their diapers.

    “Can you watch them while I pee?” I ask. 

    “Of course.” The two ladies say, one the kind woman who greeted us, the other our waitress, equally as kind.  She tells me she has a thirteen year old daughter. 

    I walk Jack and Fiona back to the table. We have the Best lunch ever! Mac and cheese, sierra nevada on tap, egg salad and cheese pizza. I put on Fiona’s hearing aids. It sounds like Billy Holiday is playing and the hum of the talking by the other guests is satisfying. Fiona looks around at the 

      bikers. They smile at her. 

    Jack can’t stop looking up at the wonderful birds, neither can I. My timing was impeccable. The babies slept the first two hours of our trip, perfect timing for our lunch break! And great pick of place, “always go with your gut instinct” I tell myself and pat myself on the back for following my own advice! 

    It’s been challenging not using a stroller, but interesting as well, especially for  Jack And Fiona who are getting to experience so much more being free! 

     

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  • E-I-E-I-O and peas on the floor!

    May 22nd, 2015

    I’m so excited about our road trip. Alan has to work, so Jack, Fiona, and I will be driving separately. I wish I could take my dog Billy, but she’s staying home with Danny. My car is packed to the brim with play packs, travel high chairs, blankets, toys, double stroller, two of everything. I made a list of things to bring for the first time in my life and it has been awesome! I made it last weekend with my husband. Instead of stressing, I’ve been feeling good about crossing things off my list!

    I am Lucky. I didn’t want twins, I was petrified by the idea. I imagined myself having one baby, being inseparable, carrying my baby everywhere with me. Nice and simple, nice and easy. As the years passed I had doubts I would ever be a mother at all, I always said “I’ll be happy with one.” After Jack and Fiona were born I knew if I had only one I would most certainly try for a second. Yesterday at dinner I gave the babies some cheerios. Jack started pushing them onto the floor in large sweeping motions. Fiona started laughing, then Jack laughed. They did this with their peas too. Then I gave them some of my fresh vegetable juice, which they love, it gives them beet mustaches. They look at each other and laugh. The floor is a mess, peas getting mashed, and I think to myself, don’t encourage food throwing. They are having so much fun though, and I have to clean the floor anyhow, what’s a few more peas?

    It’s funny to think just a couple of months ago cleaning the floor 3 times a day was driving me to tears. I’ve grown accustomed to it, part of who I am now. The babies are awake and fed, playing together. I’m getting distracted by a book that plays “Old Mc Donald had a farm.”  When I hear the tune I can’t help but sing along! “E-I-E-I-Ooooo”

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  • Teaching Sign Language to my Hearing Children

    May 21st, 2015

    These are some great resources! I am reposting this on my blog for me and for others who may be interested in the subject. I really like how Valerie said she wanted her children to learn it not only so they communicate before they can speak but possible communicate some day with someone who has hearing loss!!

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